Parenting and not prostitution is the true oldest profession. Everyone knows it is never simple and is in fact highly complicated. This is not a one-size-fits-all situation, but there are some basic tenets that can ensure some very good results. Always strive to be a role model. One truism about children is that they are perpetually preoccupied with imitating or emulating everything they witness so always be careful about what they see and hear. Establish a clear distinction between right and wrong and stick to it. This should be supported by a system of rewards and penalties so that you can properly...

The media has had a hand in sensationalizing the challenges of raising a teenage child. In reality, it’s quite easy to manage your teenager especially if you employ the wisdom you would use when dealing with adults, coupled with a little child psychology. So don’t hesitate to employ some tried and tested communication and management techniques as needed. Firstly, use some conflict resolution concepts. Never talk down to your teenager especially if they are being defensive. Give them the floor and listen to them attentively. Make them feel that your only desire is to resolve the problem...

Are you equipped to be a good mom? Don’t sweat it because the things that make up a good mother has a name; it’s called maternal instincts, and all mothers of sound mind have it. You can say it comes with the package, or in your case, the bundle of joy. If you haven’t yet realized, these maternal instincts are mostly common sense. There are no manuals or classes for motherhood because it is something inherent in women once they start having children. The most common motherly instinct has to do with setting boundaries for the child. These boundaries should skirt around right and...

A lot of new moms still struggle with the unique language of children. What’s funny about communicating with children is that they only remember the good promises made to them and little else. It can be rather frustrating, but there are some techniques that can help bridge the communication gap between children and moms. The first rule is to look into their eyes and make sure that they are looking at you straight in the eyes as well. This is needed especially if you are asking them to do something. Never use big words, talk slowly and do not let them interrupt. Make sure you clearly tell...

Not being able to be with your child 100 percent of the time does not a bad mom make, but not making the most out of whatever time spent with your child does. You do not need to feel guilty about not being able to be with your child as much as you want to because of your work, just make sure you follow a simple set of rules when you’re with them. Set aside a certain amount of time to spend with your child everyday and remember that it is all about quality and not quantity. Do some activity together, like preparing dinner or playing a game. Doing this consistently will give your child something...